You only have to look at the pain that people experience when a sexual or romantic or loving relationship comes to an end to understand how vital it is for everyone in our society to feel they are part of a couple.
Why should this be? After all, we are social animals, but the need for connection and even love can be met by being part of a larger group, not necessarily being part of a pair bond.
Could it be that there is a biological program deep inside us which compels us to overcome our biological ancestry (which might imply males meeting with as many females as possible, and females bringing up offspring on their own) – and is it possible this need to be in a couple is part of the evolution in consciousness which came about as the development of the neocortex, the sophisticated part of our brain that allows us to think and reason?
Yes, it probably is, and this is interesting because it’s also the neocortex which allows us to use the process of manifestation by means of the law of attraction to get what we want.
It’s here that the subconscious resides, the capacity of this part of our brain far outweighing that of the most sophisticated supercomputer, perhaps even working as an atomic computer, or perhaps working through some mysterious energetic connection with a universal knowledge database.
In a way it doesn’t really matter which of these is the true explanation of manifestation and the law of attraction, because the very fact that we can manifest what we want to using our mind is in itself sufficient reward for being human on the face of this planet in our current era. Love, it would seem, is just a bonus! And a loving relationship is some kind of reward for being human. Pleasing each other by loving each other is a corollary of being human, too.
And yet, as you may have observed, comparatively few people are able to manifest successfully using attraction as basis of reality creation. Comparatively few people manifest the sexual relationship they want, either. If you wish to be one of the few who do then click here to discover all about the secrets of pleasing a woman by manifesting reality.
Is there, do you think, some discrepancy between the talents and abilities bestowed on us by our evolutionary history and the designing creative force of the universe, and our capacity to see into the spiritual world and use these abilities to our advantage?
Again, the answer is almost certainly yes – we’ve been gifted with a phenomenal brain, of which we use, by even the most conservative estimate, no more than 10%.
The vast reserves of subconscious knowledge and intelligence that allow us to access universal intelligence and which also allow us to achieve the relationship we want, create a perfect pairbond based on love, and open our hearts to the people we love.
There is plenty of evidence nowadays that heart is just as powerful mechanism in terms of neural power of the brain, and there is plenty of evidence to suggest that none of us are using this resource to the full. What then, is the way forward?
The way forward probably relies on us taking advantage of the power of our minds to create reality using the essence of the connection we can establish to the subconscious mind and from their to universal intelligence.
If you want a relationship, for example, in particular if you want to establish good sexual relationship, one which will allow you to please a woman in bed, the way to do it is to visualize your outcome.
As Mike Dooley has it, you don’t do this in specific minute detail, but you do it in generalities which will allow you to imagine the overall “flavor” or emotional tone of what you want.
So for example, rather than specifying the exact color and appearance of your desired mate, what you do would be to visualize your beloved encapsulated in some image of the happiness and love you will experience when you are with your ideal partner.
If you wanted money, you wouldn’t specific specify an exact sum of money in a bank account, but you’d visualize the prosperity and abundance and everything you could have by using symbols such as an expensive car and house, expensive holidays, and so forth, without being attached those details.
In this way it is possible to manifest reality without becoming attached to the trivialities that are simply so disruptive – something known as the cursed hows.
But for a relationship, a sexual relationship, consider this: it’s a natural evolutionary state of being human to be in a relationship, and its a natural evolutionary capacity of the human mind to visualize and therefore manifest reality. You can put these two things together and create the relationship you want.
It’s a phenomenal prospect, allow you virtually unlimited possibilities for what reality creation can offer you, and it’s amazing that you, as a human being, can access to this power.
It’s been said that we need to reach a certain level of conscious evolution to be able to access this power, but I’m not sure I believe that – I think it’s open to everyone who has the capacity to apply themselves to manifestation using certain simple psychological and psychic principles.